Comments on: Q&A with Breast-Feeding Mom Jamie Lynne Grumet http://healthland.time.com/2012/05/10/q-a-with-jamie-lynne-grumet/ A healthy balance of the mind, body and spirit Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:37:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: dhamma mama http://healthland.time.com/2012/05/10/q-a-with-jamie-lynne-grumet/comment-page-1/#comment-2875 Thu, 10 May 2012 20:07:31 +0000 http://healthland.time.com/?p=59148#comment-2875 Reblogged this on dhamma for mama* and commented:
As a mother who instinctively practiced “natural”, “attachment,” or “connected” parenting, I applaud Jamie’s courage to appear on the cover of Time. The image is undeniably and deliberately provocative.
And, in some ways, problematic. Not for the reasons that most folks think.

Along with the caption “Are You Mom Enough?” this cover adds fuel to the “tyranny of comparison”–to borrow the phrase that continues to resonate with me long after hearing it in Buddhist teacher Martin Aylward’s dharma talk “Work, Sex, Money, Dharma”–between working and at-home mothers. As well, it excludes from the picture the vital presence of fathers who are equally committed to this way of parenting.

Understandably, Time’s editorial choice was guided by sales as much as shining the light on the legacy of Dr. William Sears and attachment parenting.

I so appreciate Jamie’s awareness of the unfortunate negativity (guilt, resentment, judgement, etc.) this will spark. I can only hope that the article will present a more complete and balanced view than its cover. May all parents be released from suffering the tyranny of comparison. May all parents be inspired to be the best nurturers, educators, and providers they can be and make skillful choices that serve the well-being of their families.

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