Viewpoint: What’s Missing from Sesame Street’s Parents in Prison Toolkit

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Alex shares his feelings about his incarcerated father to Sofia, Abby and Rosita as part of Sesame Street's Little Children, Big Challenges: Incarceration initiative.

Nearly 2 million American children— one quarter of them too young to go to kindergarten— now have a parent in prison or jail.  To help the littlest ones cope, Sesame Street has just released a toolkit for families faced with losing a parent for what can be years or even decades, including a video featuring a Muppet whose father is locked up.  It is titled “Little Children Big Challenges:  Incarceration.”

The effort to aid youngsters grapple with such a traumatic situation seems admirable, but it raises bigger questions. How did we get to the point where, as Reason’s Mike Riggs recently put it in a post on the toolkit, America has made it “almost normal to have a parent in prison or jail”?  And should we really see better tips for caregivers of children with incarcerated parents as the best way to mitigate the harm?

Research shows that incarceration does incredible damage to families, doubling the odds that children will later be homeless, increasing the risk for aggressive child behavior problems by 33% and the risk for severe psychological distress such as depression or anxiety in childhood by 20%.

It can hinder school performance and induces all of the trauma of other separations like divorce, but with the added element of shame, guilt and stigma.  Not to mention the financial strain losing a parent indefinitely imposes and the massively increased odds of winding up in foster care it causes.

Moreover, having a parent in prison is listed by researchers as one of the “adverse childhood experiences [PDF]” that can add up to serious health consequences in adulthood:  the greater the number of these experiences, the higher the odds of diabetes, obesity, high blood pressure, stroke, addictions, smoking and all mental illness.

As usual, Sesame Street’s brochures and programming are well-designed and sensitive to the issues they address. Leavened by the familiar fuzzy faces of Grover, Big Bird and Cookie Monster, they offer tips for caregivers such as maintaining a reassuring routine and being sensitive to and accepting of whatever emotions the child may have. One emphasizes developmentally appropriate honesty about the situation, saying:

Talk honestly with your child. It’s important to tell your child the truth about his parent’s incarceration. It’s the best way to help him feel loved and cared for.

• If you do not provide information about the incarceration, your child may come up with his own mistaken reason for his parent’s absence. Let your child know that the incarceration is not his fault.

• Be patient as your child works to understand what has happened. You may need to explain the situation several times. Let him know he’s not alone.

But maybe, while we provide these band-aids for now, what we really need is a rethink of our entire criminal justice system, one that has become not only the nation’s biggest holding cell for people with addictions, but also its largest psychiatric system— albeit one that only rarely provides evidence-based treatment for either addictions or other mental illnesses.

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Consider the facts. America, the world’s largest jailer—with 25% of the world’s prisoners and just 5% of global population— has a murder rate more than double that of most countries in Western Europe.  That means we incarcerate around five times more people per capita than most those countries do, with roughly half their success at cutting crime.  We also use drugs at rates that equal or exceed those of other Western democracies, while having some of the harshest laws, supposedly to prevent this.

We now lock up 10 times more people for drug offenses than we did in the early 80s; and while some drugs have gotten less popular, others have become more so, leaving us with roughly the same rate of severe addiction. Further, 48% of all state prisoners are nonviolent and at least half of their crimes are either drug crimes or directly related to drug use.  92% of all federal prisoners are nonviolent, with a full 48% sentenced to federal prison because of drug offenses.

That’s not to mention the financial costs, which include not just the obvious $6.2 billion spent annually on federal prison and $39 billion yearly on state prisons and the many further billions in policing costs (arrests for marijuana alone cost nearly $3.6 billion a year), but also costs in terms of employment opportunities missed and other investments like education deferred.

A tremendous amount of this incarceration is unnecessary and could easily be reduced by decriminalizing drug possession, legalizing marijuana, sentencing nonviolent offenders to house arrest and monitoring and only using prison to lock up those whose crimes genuinely warrant it for appropriate amounts of time.

Of course, what looks obvious from a policy perspective seems almost impossible politically. Perhaps one clue to the depth of problem can be found in the funding for the Sesame Street initiative itself.  As the Atlantic reports, one of the major funders is BAE, a major defense contractor that uses prison labor paying workers pennies an hour to cheaply manufacture some of its products.  It’s great that Sesame Street gets the support it needs and that BAE is willing to give— but the economics of the prison industry are difficult to disrupt.

If we were to try to revise this sorry situation, a great deal of money and jobs would have to be shifted away from locking people up and profiting from their incarceration.  We’d have to spend instead on healthcare, childcare and various other types of treatment. That would certainly be a big challenge— but nothing compared to the challenges faced by the children Sesame Street is targeting with its new toolkit.

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8 comments
J.r.Stacy
J.r.Stacy

if the parents aren't willing to talk to their children about this, why is it ok for sesame street on public money to teach our kids what we try to shelter them from? kids are supposed to believe that jail is for bad guys. unfortunately kids are learning that the bad guys are the police and politicians we trust our lives to

b2rbil
b2rbil

Personally, I think if children stopped  having children there would be a LOT less incarcerated parental units... but that's jut me.

avocats
avocats

Sorry, but "incarceration" did not cause the trauma  to the child.  The criminal activity of the purported parent caused the incarceration and that's on the parent.  I assume that Sesame Street makes this clear?  Yeah, I thought as much.

MuricanBob
MuricanBob

Finally something to buy my nephews and nieces!

JLO1965
JLO1965

@J.r.Stacy  First off it's a kit that you have to go to it wont be on public TV. If you think you're immune from incarceration you're sadly mistaken so get off your high horse. The average person break 3 laws a day any of which can land you a lengthy prison term. Ignorance of the law does not cut it. I hope you have an extra 200k laying around to a hire an attorney because if not you will get a legal aid attorney who will recommended you take a plea deal . So come off your high horse and get your nose out of the air because this could be your family in a heartbeat !

J.r.Stacy
J.r.Stacy

@avocats as far as people who are in jail for non violent constitutionally legal reasons like civil liberties (marijuana choice of health care product) it's the parents job to explain to their children if that's their choice, not the police or the government or pbs or a tv show. do they really think this is appropriate programming for pre-schoolers? personally i taught my sons that jail is for bad people. when i was locked up for my choice of medication i did not tell my children about it. they're too young to understand that it's a patriot's duty to disobey an unjust law. but when i feel it's time for them to know i won't be putting on sesame street to teach them. this propoganda is what's destroying america. it's the parents' job to raise their children, not the state. sesame street should teach abc's and counting, maybe some history. not be a political soap box for gay marriage, abortion, or other issues children really have no business being corrupted by. if you want to teach your kids about jail that is your right. if you don't want them being exposed to this aspect of society then it should be your choice too, not having it pushed onto them without your consent or knowledge by the liberal media agenda.  keep trying to corrupt my kids, i'm a better parent than pbs or the government can ever be.  the government should not be telling us what to do we should be telling them 

handbasketnotes
handbasketnotes

@avocats My husband is in prison. Our kids know what he did to get there. Nobody in the family--least of all my husband--makes excuses for what he did and how he got there. That honesty might lessen the effect on the kids, I don't know. We aren't through this yet. Are you okay with just letting them suffer, just because he got himself in prison? Is your compassion for the family limited by your anger at (disgust with?) the criminal in the family? Compassion is a good thing. 

handbasketnotes
handbasketnotes

@J.r.Stacy @avocats 

I agree that it is your responsibility to teach your kids what is right and wrong. I also agree that taxpayer dollars ought to be spent more wisely. I further agree that very young children simply aren't ready to be exposed to all the questions and uncertainties that come with knowledge that someone in the family is incarcerated.

However: Sesame Street did a nice job on this topic. For those kids who cannot be sheltered from knowledge of prison and the acts that led to incarceration, this kit could be helpful.