Why Your Parents Hate Your Spouse

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Hint: it’s all about the genes.

Well before, and well after Romeo and Juliet, lovers have lived with parents who disapproved of their match. Even in cultures where parents held—or hold—absolute control over their children’s choice of a spouse, parents and children can clash over love.

For evolutionary scholars, this struggle is especially intriguing. Why, if it causes so much angst, conflict, and, as in Romeo and Juliet’s case, death, do parents (and young lovers) never learn? From a strictly energy efficiency perspective, such drama is far from adaptive — rather, it’s a drain on precious emotional and physical resources. And generally such wasteful behaviors don’t survive generation after generation, as disapproving parents and rebellious lovers have. So why has this conflict persisted so obstinately throughout history?

Turning to a computer model, researchers at the University of Bristol and the University of Groningen have ventured provide an answer. In a study published in the journal Evolution & Human Behavior, they propose that genes may have a lot do with it.

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Evolutionary theory suggests that parents and their daughters (and sons, for that matter) should both want a caring and supportive mate. That would work for all of them. And they do both strive for this. But parents, apparently, want it more. The study’s co-author Tim Fawcett, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Bristol, this model of parental and filial behavior is predicated on the fact that parents presumably value all of their children (and therefore the survival of their genes) equally. So parents want to allocate their resources optimally and make sure that each child ends up with equal share. But if one daughter marries the hunky but unreliable handyman and the other comes home with the gawky, devoted investment banker, the former will probably require additional investment of time, money and emotional support to survive, and the others will get less from the parents.

Spending their resources that way may not seem appealing to parents, but, says Fawcett, “it is in their evolutionary interests to do so. The conflict arises because daughters will settle for a partner who provides less support than her parents would ideally like.” In other words, parents feel a need to fill in the gap for the child married to the handyman so that daughter, and her hunk, have the same chance of raising a family and having children who continue the genetic lineage as the daughter married to the wealthy banker.

As for the daughter, she gets the mate she’s most attracted to, she benefits from more help than her siblings receive, and her parents will supply what her husband can’t. So she’s not necessarily pressured to find and marry a mate that meets with her parents’ approval.

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There’s another reason this may work for the daughter on an evolutionary basis, says Robert Kurzban, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania who was not involved in the study. She may be better equipped than her parents at recognizing a guy who’s got good genes and will give her more children — despite his less than stellar supportiveness. In the study, evolutionary success was defined by which daughters had the most offspring who lived to reproductive age. And daughters who chose a mate with fewer resources (and who received more parental support than their siblings did) did indeed have more children. Previous research also showed that parents tended to prioritize social class and family background for a son-in-law while daughters placed greater value on physical attractiveness, sense of humor, and even smell, which some scientists believe helps people identify lovers with compatible genes. All of these, in the end, may help them to populate the next generation.

But will a star-crossed couple be happier? The study makes no such claims. “These models,” says Kurzban, “are trying to give us a sense of human evolutionary history without making any judgment on modern mores. They make no claims that a daughter’s strategy of marrying despite parental disapproval will lead to marital happiness or even to having more children.” What they do suggest, however, is that defying parents when it comes to choosing mates isn’t just a matter of the heart — or of misbehavior — but one of genes and survival. If only the Montagues and Capulets knew.

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BrightRich
BrightRich



I’ll try to keep this short. I’ve been friends with my ex for 7 years, dated him for the last 11 months. He broke it off with me last week. We had a great relationship, always had fun, respected each other, both easy to get along with, My ex dumped me over a year ago, stating that I had been jealous and possessive towards him (when I truly was not). Three weeks later, he tried to apologize and asked to be my friend again… Since he thought it would not be fair for me to go back with him again after all the pain he put me through. I said yes, but never spoke with him again. Six months later, on a scholar event he showed off with his new girlfriend… I can say their relationship did not last, since I heard that she was such a complicated girl. I’ve unfriended him and deleted any contact with him. I saw him last January by coincidence in a shopping mall but we did not speak to each other. Right now I see all the mistakes I did when we were together and i tried getting him back was difficult i add him again on Facebook and tried calling his line but he refused me so i decided to go and see him in his apartment he drove me out after three days i came across someone comment that (Dr OWASELE) is a capable and reliable man that can help someone to get back together after break, i decided to contact him and explained all my situation to (Dr OWASELE) i sent him what was requested from me and and he started casting the return spell that was all. One evening i was laying down and my phone started ring when i checked it was Kelvin i was so so surprise the third times i picked the call come and see what was happening Kelvin stared begging me that he miss me and will should come back together, that i should forgive him and he still love and cherish me so much....please help me thank this man (Dr OWASELE) for the wonderful help he render to me when i needed help and if you are still in the same situation (Dr OWASELE) is the right man to help you contact his email now: owaselespelltemple@gmail.com 

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LosRey

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CassieMorgan

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PhilipLynn

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janeloan123

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roxanajess200


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bouchardemil
bouchardemil


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LosRey
LosRey

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BrightRich
BrightRich

I love this guy and my family made me break up with him I didn’t want it but I had to ,so when I did break up with him, I didn’t talk to him for about a month because I would never hurt a guy so what I thought was not to talked to him for a month but I was wrong I made things worse its been a year now I did that 2 weeks things still nothing he's in love with another girl but I still think he loves me because he used to be way in love with me, i tried getting him back now but is very difficult for me so i have to use a spell from a man called Dr.Airiohuodion love spell that make my exbf come back and also make my family to love and cherish this guy, we are planning to settle down by his grace thank you once again Dr.Airiohuodion if you wish to contact him via email: airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com he is a nice and powerful man to share problems with

bouchardemil
bouchardemil




I am Emil Bouchard,I want to say thank to Dr Agumagu for everything he did in my life. To everyone who doesn't believe in spell, I was one like you at first. I wasn't quite sure if I wanted to do this since I've tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read so many testimonials of Dr Agumagu how he help people to get back their ex lover. Dr Agumagu answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my ex girlfriend back. So my story is that I was at my office when the girl I suppose to marry told me that she wasn't in love with me and never will it be and that she didn't want to speak or see me again, especially since she was talking to this other guy. i email Dr Agumagu and tell him everything.he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the one that was to get her back to me and stay with me and to marry me.As soon as he finish the spells, my girlfriend came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful to him, that is why i am sharing this testimony to those who need his help. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Agumagu said would happen. I’m very happy for the love spell Dr Agumagu have done for me, my ex girlfriend is now back to me and we are living so happy. if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! contact is email address (agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com or agumaguspelltemple@outlook.com tell +2348158847627) Emil Bouchard

BrightRich
BrightRich

I love this guy and my family made me break up with him I didn’t want it but I had to ,so when I did break up with him, I didn’t talk to him for about a month because I would never hurt a guy so what I thought was not to talked to him for a month but I was wrong I made things worse its been a year now I did that 2 weeks things still nothing he's in love with another girl but I still think he loves me because he used to be way in love with me, i tried getting him back now but is very difficult for me so i have to use a spell from a man called Dr.Airiohuodion love spell that make my exbf come back and also make my family to love and cherish this guy, we are planning to settle down by his grace thank you once again Dr.Airiohuodion if you wish to contact him via email: airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com he is a nice and powerful man to share problems with

DavidMike
DavidMike

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PricessAisatNuhu
PricessAisatNuhu

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ShellaStatenMorris
ShellaStatenMorris

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BlessmeFather
BlessmeFather

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THANKS
Carol Andersen, Seattle, USA


PendersonArian
PendersonArian


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PendersonArian
PendersonArian


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osicater1
osicater1


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KimSalyers
KimSalyers

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EvelynJeff
EvelynJeff



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StevenGeorge
StevenGeorge

I really never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called Dr ADUWAWA via (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo.com).
The woman i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down,she was with me for 3years and i really love her so much, she left me for another man with no reasons,when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In less than 45 hours she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this because i believe there are many people out there who might need his help here is his contact email: (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo.com)

PricessAisatNuhu
PricessAisatNuhu

At last my happiness has been restored through prophetsuleman of email prophetsuleman@gmail.com , my heart is full of joy and testimonies but here is a little I can say out of the whole wondrous things Prophet suleman has done for me I was in a great and the sweetest relationship with my man HENRY for three years and we were both in love and even planning of getting married November 2013 so when he traveled for on  a business trip to Australia he melt a lady there whom he dated for two months and when he returned back to home he began to behave strange and with not long he said he is tired of this relationship looking for ways to break our love life and he finally push me out and bring in the Australia lady with him .This time I was frustrated and devastated about my love life so I vow not to rest until I am able to get back the only man

EdwinWallace1
EdwinWallace1

Am so glad to have this opportunity to speak joyfully again, Am Mrs Philip OLivia, from Germany am 47years old.since June 4th 2013, the relationship between i and my husband was stumbling, i never knew he was sewing another lady outside. my beloved Philip Lucas, whom i loved was being taken away from me gradually. my husband send me a letter through our lawyer, when i gothrough he seeks for divorce and i was calling his cell phone and it wasn't going through then i cried all through the night. three days later he came to the house well drunk so i help him to the bathroom to take his bath but he couldn't so i came to the dinning with him and we ate together, after few minutes we went to the bedroom and we slept. the next morning when he woke up the anger in him increased all because he found his self mistakenly slept with me, after making all this troubles, he left and my tears and sorrows increased. 3months later, i went away because i couldn't bear all what i was passing through. until one day, when i was in my office my friend came to me and told me about how her own friend also
got his marital solution and after she contacted me to her friend, and her friend who was also nice to me help me to a spell caster were i got the solutions to my problems.there was this great man spell caster known for good his name was Dr Papa accorrding to him he said he inherited this spirit of spell casting from his grandfather, he also said that it was a generational inheritance . i contacted him to help me to restore my marriage with Lucas that's all, behold he brought him back to me, and also help me to get babies, when i was pregnant, i never knew of it becos Doctor said i can no longer give birth that i have claimed the stage of monopoles. Dr.Papa help me to get back my husband 1year after break up, and also
helped me to give birth to a set of twins 4months ago. so now i and my husband are happily together forever. Email him now on supremetemple@hotmail.com

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sevdagulea
sevdagulea

I have something to share with you!!! There is a great joy in my heart which I want to share with everyone. My name is Sevda Gulea. I had misunderstanding with my lover few years ago; which led to our break up and he never wanted to hear my voice again. He saw a beautiful lover more prettier than myself, but as time went on I met Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE  the great spell caster. I contacted him through his email and explained everything to him. He said that I shouldn't worry because my lover will come back to me on his knees begging for forgiveness. I bought some item that he told me to buy for the preparation of the spell. After everything was prepared he told me that my lover will come to me with 24 hours begging. My greatest joy now is that he actually came back to me and fell on his knees begging for forgiveness, and today we are happy. Do you have any problem with your loved one and Do not know what to do? Well worry no more because Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE  can provide you with a spell to get him or her back just as he helped me. Contact Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE  today via email: (airehobhuanuagbontemple@yahoo.com)

sandracobe200
sandracobe200


I want to appreciate Dr.Kasee of ONIMALOVESPELL@GMAIL.COM for bringing back my husband who left me and the kids for almost 2 years. i never taught i would never get him back untill i saw a comment online about dr. Kasee and i contacted him, after following all instruction given to me by Dr.Kasee, my husband came back begging for forgiveness within the space of 48hours. Thanks doctor your spell is really great. For those of you who have marriage/relationship problem should contacct him for hel via onimalovespell@gmail.com . And experience it your self. 


keerthi
keerthi

hi I am keerthi

i got a one problem plzz..... solve it friends

 my age was 23 just i got married 4 months ago . the problem was my husband won't talk with my parents y i don't know when i will ask he will say that  no i wont talk because my dad also won't talk his father in law.

but my parents like him so much because i only one daughter that to we are in u.s my parents are in india 

my parents had 2 daughters but recently my sister died. their are very intrest to talk with my husband but my husband wont talk and he won't call also and his parents also in india he will do phone every 2 days and he will say that to do me also phone to his parents i will do i will think that his parents also my parents y he won't think like that.i  think that his full grip of his parents i think so his parents said that don't talk with her parents that's his doing like that.just i am thinking whats the real that's gods know..

please solve the problem..........

SuePreedy
SuePreedy

 Hi I am SUE PREEDY from London I got a love spell done on my fiance actually he left me after one year of engagement I was shocked when he told me he does not love me any more he is going to marry with another girl it was very difficult to believe because we were in love from last 5 years he was the guy who never thought to live without me for a second he used to give thousands of phone calls in a day and he was saying to me he does not love me any more, it was a worse news for my family because I gave a very good treat to my friends and raletive on my engagement and we put engagement ring to each other in front of hundreds of people now if he didn't marry me so it was shame for me in my society so I decided that I will get him back any how, than I found Dr.Trust on Internet I told him my problem he told me not to worry I will fetch him back to you he said that he will come himself and will beg me.he gave me 48 hours time and of course it happened before 48 hours he come back to me and said he is sorry for what he did to me,that he is ready to marry me. we get married and we are happy now as husband and wife. really Dr.Trust is a Miracle Man. contact him for your own help ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call me +2348156885231


JosephineSanna
JosephineSanna


I’m sharing this testimony because someone out there might have same problem,Am very happy today because i was having a sleepless night since the only man i have ever love in my life left me for another girl,trying to get him back i met this testimony of a Woman called Lilian and she said somebody called Dr kizzekpe helped her to bring back her lover. i took a leaps of faith and contacted Dr kizzekpe and he also brought back the only man i have ever love to me.I’m so happy sharing this testimony,contact Dr kizzekpe in his email: kizzekpespells@outlook.com and believe me his going to make you happy once again

Caren22
Caren22

My fiance and I kept on getting into fights all of the time. We were close to breaking up a few times. I knew that we needed something to stay together because he was pulling away from me day by day. I contacted drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com who really helped us stay together and become a closer couple. She did a love binding spell that worked perfectly! He started making more of an effort to talk to me about how he was feeling which helped us work through our problems so much better. My fiance tends to shut down whenever there is conflict and this spell helped him communicate with me. I can also tell that he is more attracted to me because he keeps sending me flowers at work and is always trying to touch me in some way. It's actually really nice and I am very grateful to drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com for all that he have done for me.......Caren

Parker78
Parker78

thanks to  Ekpiku for bringing back back my lover in just 2days with the help of Ekpiku love spell, if you need help your relationship or marriage contact him via email address: Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com

kithy754
kithy754

I can’t thank you enough Email: ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com for all that you have done for me. About a year ago I my partner had a misunderstanding that lead to break up, we had both made BIG mistakes in our relationship. He ended up moving away from me to pursue a new life. I knew in my heart that he would be the only one to make me happy. I was relieved when I found your site and what you had to offer. I requested 3 to 4 day casting of the reunite us love spell and within 4days Denny company had relocated him back to our hometown where I still lived. We immediately reconnected and move in with each other i am so happy that i found you and i was all patient to following your order thank you Dr Ekaka.

ttkrishnan
ttkrishnan

Love marriages are gaining increasing acceptance among the educated in India and parents often reconcile to children making their own choices. But in countryside, defying parents and marrying persons of their choice would most often lead to disowning of the children and even honour killings by the families of the children. In such cases not only is their no support system for the daughter marrying the handyman, there is no opportunity even for the genes to survive.

charwhitley
charwhitley

As a Parent, it’s important to show my Son and Daughter it is okay to kindly set personal boundaries, by saying no.  Sometimes, it may simply mean keeping my mouth shut when one of them may be trying to manipulate me into purchasing something for them or their other half.  I call it “not falling for the trap”.   Too many Parents, parent from guilt these days, the kids know and get over on them.

porichkid
porichkid

some true ,but to broad a brush stroke

CyndyHaggart
CyndyHaggart

This artical is very shallow, due to it painting an etremely wide brush across extremely variable situations.

We are all as different as the fingerprints we carry. Yes there are track records of situations but by no means due they apply to all.

Liberals_Suck
Liberals_Suck

My parents always accepted whomever us kids wanted to date and marry. There is no divorce in us 4 kid"s marriges. We plan to do the same.

SamuelAdams
SamuelAdams

My mother pushed and manipulated my father into disowning my sister for "marrying a bum" and after he kicked her out of the house, my mother would sneak around to visit her and then played the family hero by "softening" up my father into finally accepting her back into the family.  3 years later, her husband was finally admitted to family gatherings.

He's now a multi-millionaire, having worked his blue-collar butt off and now owns a plumbing supply company, but my parents (especially my mother) never acknowledged that he wasn't quite the failure that they painted him as being.


My point?  Parents are humans just like their children are, and are JUST as subject to being WRONG about something.  Being a parent doesn't mean automatically that you have all the answers.

tynkyr_belle
tynkyr_belle

"She may be better equipped than her parents at recognizing a guy who’s got good genes."

Watch ANY episode of Jerry Springer, and you will see you are in abject, total error.

StevenR.Freedman
StevenR.Freedman

I noticed the side bar reference form Dr Gupta.  Since he's changes his mind on pot don't you think this lilnk is a little misleading?


dwildmangreen
dwildmangreen

i have one daughter...she married at the age of 23 to a man she met on another planet (family joke)...he is the greatest son-in-law you could imagine and we get alone great with his parents as well...all i can say is, from what i have heard, this is a gift and one for which i will always be grateful.

ColleenKellyMellor
ColleenKellyMellor

I think this is waaayyy too simplistic, suggesting parents equate 'supportive' with how much mate can provide, financially. So not the case.  I look to see if my daughters' mates can provide emotional and psychological support, in the tough job of parenting, especially in a culture that appears to toss out minimal behavioral standards. Why?  My daughters make more than enough money on their own.  They are the heavy-hitters, in providing. This study sounds like something that might have been apropos in our Baby Boomer era, when we were young adults.

emptynester2013
emptynester2013

I do not alienate them by any definition of the word, they come to dinner, cookouts etc... I go visit them etc.. We have a good time together. What i mean by investing in the couple is they have not said "I do" yet and as we all know things can go sour quickly in relationships. I do encourage them to be good to each other, stick with their plan of no children and advise them that if they did have children it would change EVERYTHING about their relationship.  Luckily for them they are smart enough to use a BC method that lasts for 3 years so there will be no accident.

  My heart and soul are  with my daughter and IF they get married I will come to love this young man in my own way. He is a nice fella but limited and I never wanted that for my daughter but ultimately it is her life and his to live and learn from.  Shoot my goal in life is to retire and have a fruity little drink with an umbrella somewhere on a beach

Predictor
Predictor

Maybe. Than again, maybe "evolutionary psychology" is, at best, an educated guess, since its ability to experiment or provide falsifiable hypotheses is extremely limited.


pahanka
pahanka

I wish they wouldn't publish headlines this way.  All it will serve to do is alienate sons and daughters- in- law and make them question something that isn't necessarily a problem.  I have two daughters.  I have one "son-in'law" whom I consider a "son"--because my daughter picked him, and it is my responsibility, as a parent,  to encourage a happy union. People need to butt out of what is none of their business regarding adult children.

awayfromhere
awayfromhere

My husband and I have been together nearly 13 years. She's known I haven't wanted children since I was 16, and used to lecture me about being selfish (yes, preach to the teenager about having children). While there are potentially genetic concerns about not reproducing, she was also unhappy that she no longer had control over her son, that he moved away, has different religious values, that he also did not want children, that he went into a career field and level of education (a Master's, when she wanted him to become a massage therapist with local cert.) she didn't support, and so on. All of these things have been blamed on me. My husband comments constantly that what she doesn't understand is that if I disappeared tomorrow, he'd eventually find another woman that shared HIS values and lifestyle, not hers. She would be happy if I vanished, because she thinks he'll move back to his home town, come to family dinner several times per week, have a bundle of grandchildren for her, and live happily ever after. Of course, given the age we met and how long we've been together, we have influenced one another over the years. She has no idea how much encouragement I provide when it comes to contacting and seeing his family, or remaining active spiritually. The things she dislikes most about me are actually the things I spend the most time doing for him on that front. I'm sad that I don't have a loving second family. Thank goodness my family adores him.